So this break has been interesting to say the least… I’m not going to bore you with all of the things I did over break but this past week has just been exhausting so I kinda want to get some things off my chest somewhere where (let’s be honest) most people aren’t going to read it. So here goes my rant…
I’m sick and tired of being there for people then pretty much getting stabbed in the back. I tried helping a really good friend of mine who was going through a kind of emotional roller coaster. She called me one night at like 12:30 in tears and I sat there and talked to her for a half hour and let her vent because I could tell she needed someone to talk to. Then the next day, she calls me to do the same thing and I listen because I want to be a good friend. Then a couple days later, I found out that most of the things that she told me were only half-truths. I just let it go because I figured she was upset so maybe she didn’t realize it… But then I heard about all of the bad decisions she had been making. So I (along with another good friend of ours) decided that we needed to talk to her about it and make her realize all of these things that were wrong (one of these things was being “friends” with this guy who was already in a relationship). I thought we got through to her because she called him and went off on him for some things she didn’t know about (like the relationship he was in) and then she stopped talking to him….so we thought. Turns out the next day she told us she was going out to breakfast with her mom…yeah not true. Then she told us she was going to go have her uncle look at her car because it was screwing up…also not true. Both times she was with this kid. The time she “went to her uncle’s” was the time that really set me off. I saw a text from this guy about her going over there at the same time she was apparently going to her uncle’s. So we confronted her about it and she lied saying she actually was going to her uncle’s. Well we were going out with a group of people that night and I get a text saying her uncle apparently just got there (making him about an hour and a half late) so I called her and asked her what was going on and she had some elaborate story about how she didn’t know if she was going to be able to go or not because her uncle was just starting to work on her car. That’s all fine and dandy but when I drive by that guys house and your car is out front, don’t get pissed when I call you on it. She’s telling people things like I’m overreacting, I’m being a bitch, and I’ll get over it.
For those of you who are still reading let me give you a little word of advice when it comes to dealing with me. I try and be the best friend I can be. I would do just about anything to help out my friends. Even if we’re not that close, if you ask a favor of me, I’m most likely going to do it because that’s the kind of person I am. I’m almost always the first to apologize in an argument even if I’m not the one who screwed up. But, there are 2 things that if you do this, Bitch Kaitlyn is gonna come out and I definitely won’t be the first to apologize…. And that’s 1) insulting my friends to/in front of me and 2) LYING TO ME! Those are my 2 biggest pet peeves. One of the things I pride myself on is being a good friend…so I’d be going back on that if I just sat by while you insulted one of my friends. And lying just sets me off. especially when all I’m trying to do is help you and you go and screw me over. For what? A guy who doesn’t care about you? Okay I guess that’s cool. Good luck with that because I’m not gonna be here for you whenever he screws you over…yet again.
Sorry not sorry